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The question that has to come first
Fishtown Medicine•6 min read
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The question that has to come first

Ashvin Vijayakumar MD

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Ashvin Vijayakumar MD•Updated August 22, 2026
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  • Why does sleep apnea get mistaken for insomnia?
  • What are the signs that point toward apnea?
  • What points toward insomnia instead?
  • Guidance from the Clinic
  • Can you have both?
  • Why is sedating an undiagnosed apnea a problem?
  • How is it sorted out?
  • What happens after the answer?
  • Common Questions
  • Can sleep apnea feel like insomnia?
  • What are the signs of sleep apnea in someone who does not snore loudly?
  • Can you have insomnia and sleep apnea at the same time?
  • Are sleeping pills dangerous with sleep apnea?
  • How do you test for sleep apnea at home?
  • Deep Questions
  • Why does sleep apnea cause nighttime urination?
  • Why are women diagnosed with sleep apnea later than men?
  • Why treat the apnea first when both are present?
  • ✦Key Takeaways
  • Related at Fishtown Medicine
  • Scientific References

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Obstructive sleep apnea frequently presents as insomnia instead of as snoring and daytime sleepiness, and the two conditions occur together in roughly 30 to 40 percent of people with either one. The distinguishing features are waking gasping or choking, witnessed pauses in breathing, loud snoring, waking unrefreshed after adequate hours, morning headache, nocturia, and treatment-resistant high blood pressure. The distinction is decisive because sedating an undiagnosed apnea can worsen it, and because untreated apnea carries cardiovascular risk that treating the insomnia alone leaves in place. A home sleep apnea test settles it.

TL;DR: These get confused constantly, and getting it wrong is the costly mistake in sleep medicine. Sleep apnea does not always look like a large man snoring. In plenty of people, particularly women, it looks like insomnia: waking through the night, unable to get back down, exhausted in the morning. Signs that point at apnea are waking up gasping or choking, anyone telling you that you stop breathing, loud snoring, waking unrefreshed after enough hours, morning headaches, getting up to urinate repeatedly, and blood pressure that will not come down on medication. That distinction decides your treatment: sleeping pills can make apnea worse, and untreated apnea damages your heart while you treat the wrong thing. A home test settles it in one night. Tell Dr. Ash what your nights look like.

There is one question that has to be answered before anybody writes a sleep prescription, and a surprising number of services selling sleep medication never ask it.

Why does sleep apnea get mistaken for insomnia?

Because for a large group of people, insomnia is what apnea feels like from the inside.

The textbook picture is loud snoring, witnessed pauses, and falling asleep in the afternoon. That describes some people with obstructive sleep apnea and misses many others. When an apnea event ends, it ends with an arousal, a brief surge of adrenaline that pulls you toward wakefulness so your airway reopens. Dozens or hundreds of those a night produce fragmented sleep, repeated waking, and difficulty getting back down.

From the sleeper's side, that is indistinguishable from insomnia. You know you woke up. You do not know why, because the event that woke you is over before you are conscious enough to notice it.

Women are misclassified more often here. Apnea in women more frequently presents as insomnia, fatigue, and low mood, and less often as the classic snoring-and-sleepiness picture, so the diagnosis is reached later or missed. Anyone who has been treated for insomnia or depression for years without much improvement deserves the apnea question asked properly.

What are the signs that point toward apnea?

Any of these should move apnea up the list:

  • Waking with a gasp, a choke, or a jolt. The single most specific symptom.
  • Somebody has told you that you stop breathing. A partner's report carries a lot of weight.
  • Loud, habitual snoring, particularly if it goes quiet and then resumes with a snort.
  • Waking unrefreshed after adequate time asleep. Insomnia leaves you short of sleep; apnea leaves you unrestored by the sleep you got.
  • Morning headache, from overnight carbon dioxide retention.
  • Getting up to urinate two or more times. Apnea drives nocturia through a hormonal pathway most people never connect to breathing.
  • Blood pressure that resists treatment. Resistant hypertension is a recognized flag.
  • Falling asleep unintentionally while reading, watching, or at a light.
  • Atrial fibrillation, type 2 diabetes, or a thick neck, all of which raise the odds.

Two more that surprise people: teeth grinding, which often accompanies arousals, and reflux that is worse at night, since the pressure changes of an obstructed breath draw stomach contents upward.

What points toward insomnia instead?

The pattern of insomnia is about the mind and the clock more than the airway.

Difficulty falling asleep at the start of the night, with a mind that will not settle, points toward insomnia. So does lying awake for long stretches with frustration and clock-watching, waking early and being unable to return, sleeping well away from home or on holiday, and the whole thing having started around an identifiable stressor.

The clearest signal is what happens when circumstances change. Insomnia usually varies with life. Apnea does not care what kind of week you had.

Guidance from the Clinic

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"I ask everybody with insomnia whether anyone has seen them stop breathing, and whether they wake up gasping. It takes fifteen seconds. The number of people who have been on a sleep aid for two years and have never been asked those two questions is the part I find hard to accept."

Can you have both?

Yes, and it is common enough to have its own name.

Comorbid insomnia and sleep apnea, shortened to COMISA, describes people who have both, and the overlap is substantial: roughly 30 to 40 percent of people presenting with insomnia have significant sleep apnea, and a similar share of people with apnea report insomnia symptoms.

That combination is harder to treat than either alone and it is treatable. The sequence that generally works is apnea first or both together, since CPAP tolerance improves when the insomnia is addressed, and the insomnia often improves when the arousals stop. Treating only the insomnia leaves the cardiovascular risk running.

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Why is sedating an undiagnosed apnea a problem?

Because most sleep medication reduces the two defences your airway relies on.

Obstructive apnea happens when the muscles holding the upper airway open relax too far during sleep. What rescues you is an arousal: your brain detects the falling oxygen or rising carbon dioxide and wakes you enough to restore tone. Drugs that reduce muscle tone and raise the arousal threshold interfere with both halves of that, so the airway collapses more readily and the rescue takes longer.

Benzodiazepines and opioids are the clearest concern, and both reduce upper airway tone and blunt the arousal response. Alcohol does the same and is why apnea is worse after drinking. The picture for the Z-drugs is more mixed, with some studies finding little effect in mild disease, and none of that is reassurance for someone whose apnea has never been measured.

The sequence is what protects you. Screen, test if the screen is positive, then treat. Any service willing to send a sedating medication without asking whether you have been seen to stop breathing has skipped the step that matters most.

How is it sorted out?

With a few structured questions and, if they point that way, one night of testing.

Screening tools such as STOP-BANG turn the history into a score: snoring, tiredness, observed apneas, blood pressure, body mass index, age, neck circumference, and sex. It is deliberately over-inclusive, because the cost of a missed apnea is far higher than the cost of an unnecessary test.

If the screen is positive, a home sleep apnea test measures airflow, effort, oxygen saturation, and pulse across one night in your own bed, and produces an apnea-hypopnea index. That is usually enough. An in-lab study is reserved for people with significant heart or lung disease, suspected central apnea, or a negative home test that did not fit the story. The practical details are on home sleep apnea testing, and what a wearable can and cannot tell you is on sleep apnea screening.

A wearable is a prompt and never an answer. A watch flagging oxygen variation is a reason to get tested, and a watch showing nothing does not rule anything out.

What happens after the answer?

If it is apnea, treatment options run from CPAP through mandibular advancement devices, positional therapy, weight change where relevant, and surgical options in selected cases. Treating it often improves the insomnia by itself, since the arousals were the cause.

If it is insomnia, the first-line treatment is behavioural and not pharmacological. CBT-I is what both the American College of Physicians and the American Academy of Sleep Medicine recommend before any medication, and it is the treatment whose benefit persists after it stops.

If it is both, they get addressed together, usually with the behavioural work started alongside apnea treatment so that CPAP has a better chance of being tolerated.

At Fishtown Medicine this runs inside membership, because sorting it takes a history, a test, and then weeks of adjustment. How sleep care works here is on sleep disorders treatment.

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Key Takeaways

  1. Sleep apnea often presents as insomnia, and in women that is the more common presentation.
  2. Waking with a gasp, a witnessed pause, waking unrefreshed, morning headache, and repeated nighttime urination all point at the airway.
  3. Roughly 30 to 40 percent of people with either condition have both.
  4. Sedating an unmeasured apnea can worsen it, which is why screening comes before any sleep prescription.
  5. A home test over a single night settles the question for most people, and a wearable is a prompt and never an answer.

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  • Perimenopause and sleep

Scientific References

  1. Sweetman AM, Lack LC, Catcheside PG, et al. Developing a successful treatment for co-morbid insomnia and sleep apnoea. Sleep Medicine Reviews. 2017;33:28-38.
  2. Luyster FS, Buysse DJ, Strollo PJ. Comorbid insomnia and obstructive sleep apnea: challenges for clinical practice and research. Journal of Clinical Sleep Medicine. 2010;6(2):196-204.
  3. Chung F, Abdullah HR, Liao P. STOP-Bang Questionnaire: A Practical Approach to Screen for Obstructive Sleep Apnea. Chest. 2016;149(3):631-638.
  4. Peppard PE, Young T, Barnet JH, Palta M, Hagen EW, Hla KM. Increased prevalence of sleep-disordered breathing in adults. American Journal of Epidemiology. 2013;177(9):1006-1014.
  5. Bonsignore MR, Saaresranta T, Riha RL. Sex differences in obstructive sleep apnoea. European Respiratory Review. 2019;28(154):190030.
  6. Kapur VK, Auckley DH, Chowdhuri S, et al. Clinical Practice Guideline for Diagnostic Testing for Adult Obstructive Sleep Apnea. Journal of Clinical Sleep Medicine. 2017;13(3):479-504.
  7. Umlauf MG, Chasens ER. Sleep disordered breathing and nocturnal polyuria: nocturia and enuresis. Sleep Medicine Reviews. 2003;7(5):403-411.
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Frequently Asked Questions

Common Questions

Yes, and it frequently does. Each apnea event ends in a brief arousal that fragments sleep and produces repeated waking with difficulty returning to sleep, which is indistinguishable from insomnia to the person experiencing it. This presentation is more common in women, who are consequently diagnosed later or misdiagnosed with insomnia or depression.
Waking with a gasp or choke, waking unrefreshed despite adequate hours, morning headache, needing to urinate two or more times overnight, blood pressure resistant to medication, nocturnal reflux, and teeth grinding can all occur without prominent snoring. Sleep apnea in women particularly often presents as insomnia, fatigue, and low mood instead of the classic snoring and daytime sleepiness picture.
Yes. The combination is called comorbid insomnia and sleep apnea, or COMISA, and roughly 30 to 40 percent of people presenting with either condition have the other. It is harder to treat than either alone, and the usual approach addresses both together, since treating the insomnia improves CPAP tolerance and treating the apnea removes the arousals driving the insomnia.
Medications that reduce upper airway muscle tone or raise the arousal threshold can worsen obstructive sleep apnea, with benzodiazepines, opioids, and alcohol carrying the clearest concern. Evidence for the Z-drugs is more mixed, with some trials showing little effect in mild disease. Because none of that can be assessed in someone whose apnea has never been measured, screening should precede any sedating prescription.
A home sleep apnea test records airflow, breathing effort, oxygen saturation, and pulse rate over one night in your own bed, and produces an apnea-hypopnea index counting events per hour. It is sufficient for most people with a positive screen. In-lab polysomnography is reserved for significant cardiopulmonary disease, suspected central sleep apnea, or a negative home test that conflicts with a convincing history.

Deep-Dive Questions

Repeated obstructive events generate large negative intrathoracic pressure as the person strains against a closed airway, which increases venous return and stretches the atria. Atrial stretch triggers release of atrial natriuretic peptide, which promotes sodium and water excretion, so urine production rises overnight. This is why nocturia improves on effective apnea treatment and why it is a more useful screening question than most people expect.
Women more often present with insomnia, fatigue, morning headache, and low mood, and report less of the loud snoring and witnessed apnea that drive referral, so the clinical picture matches the physician's mental template for insomnia or depression instead. Events in women are also more likely to be hypopneas and to cluster in REM sleep, which can yield a lower apnea-hypopnea index despite comparable symptom burden. The practical consequence is that a woman with treatment-resistant insomnia deserves the apnea questions asked explicitly instead of inferred.
Untreated apnea generates the arousals that fragment sleep, so behavioural treatment of insomnia works against an ongoing physiological cause and the cardiovascular consequences of the apnea continue in the meantime. In practice the two are usually addressed in parallel, because insomnia is a leading reason people abandon CPAP in the first weeks, and treating it improves adherence. What should not happen is treating the insomnia alone and considering the problem solved.

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